My husband is a cat person.

If he was older, unmarried and a woman – he’d be a really good cat lady. He’s had cats all his life and loved them. Me? Not so much.

This is Virgo – he was with us for almost 12 years.  My husband had just graduated college, gotten a job in the big city and was about to move out of the Bronx – where he had been living for about a year.  As he was leaving, he went to the back of his old building to dump some garbage and a little, gray cat the size of a large rat ran over to him. It was love at first sight for both of them.

Virgo was not a gentle, loving, purring kitty. He was a Bronx born, garbage raised hooligan. He considered every touch a call to arms. He didn’t like to be pet. The irony. A pet that doesn’t like petting.  The only person in our family that even tried to love that cat was my husband – and he’s got the scars to show for it.

Virgo lived the good life. He went from eating garbage in the ‘hood to eating only Fancy Feast – my husband insisted. For most of his life he had a better healthcare plan than all of us combined and he was groomed way more than I was.

It was the first time I ever lived with a pet. I know, I know. Cats are easy. Cats aren’t dogs. Cats are low-key. Except this cat wasn’t low-key. This cat was wild, crazy and mean most of the time. And the liter box. Can we talk about the liter box? It’s box. Full of poop and pee that just lives with you. The horror.

That seat was his perch, his favorite spot in the house.  There is a permanent indent in the cushion where he sat – and where now, our new cat, also sits.  Yes, we got another cat. Lexi. The complete, polar opposite of Virgo. A loving, purring, soft, sweet little girl. You want her?

I don’t think I’ll ever be a cat person. Or a dog person. Or a fish….you get the point. But I’ve made my peace with cat living.




9 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. on thehomefrontandbeyond
    Aug 21, 2012 @ 16:18:19

    I have a cat. I am not a cat person.End of story.


  2. squirrel circus
    Aug 21, 2012 @ 22:14:46

    I think you’ve made some real progress here. Keep talking it out..and repeat after me, “I am a pet person…I am a pet person..” hee hee hee….


  3. Melanie B.
    Aug 22, 2012 @ 10:14:40

    I am a total cat person too – I have 2 cats (I would have more… Unfortunately, my husband is fine with 2). We also have 2 dogs (he is a dog person, I am fine with 2 of those). You get the point. Very nice post. Have fun with your new kitty!


  4. Musings of a Mom, Interruped
    Aug 24, 2012 @ 21:54:41

    Hubby and I adopted the ONLY cat I have ever liked shortly after we got married. Of course, this cat chose *ME* as his favorite, so that probably sealed the deal. Then we got a companion for him. And that cat hated me. I’m not a cat person. I will never have another one – unless the litter box is completely out of sight AND smell, I never ever ever EVER have to clean it and I’m guaranteed to be the cat’s favorite. And it’s neutered/spayed and declawed. Which ironically I feel is horribly mean to do to a cat, but I can’t stand the shredded furniture.

    See? I’m better off NOT being a cat owner.


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