Girl, Uninterrupted

Yesterday was “International Day of the Girl”. Did you know that? I didn’t. I thought it was “International Day of the Conference Call”.

CNN.com asked some of the most impressive women in the world what they’d tell their 15-year-old self. I won’t tell you how many times I tried to link that article to this post and failed. Just know that I tried.  WordPress is getting under my nerves. I digress.

Here’s what I would tell my 15-year-old self if I could:

  • Even though they are driving you crazy right now – your family will be the most important thing in your life.
  • Although you’ve been plotting to get the hell out of Pennsylvania – in about 20 years you’ll be back – and love it.
  • Be kind to everyone. You have no idea what they are going through.
  • In 4 years you’ll meet the man you’ll spend the rest of your life with. Sorry. It won’t be David Canfield. You’ll do much better.
  • Go get your eyebrows waxed. Today. Now.
  • All the reasons you think you’re goofy, dorky and weird will be all the reasons why people love you. Lighten up.

Not as eloquent as Melinda Gates or Oprah – but there you have it.

I couldn’t find a picture of myself at 15 – but here’s one that’s close enough. Yes, that’s a maroon velvet vest I’m wearing. There may or may not have been a matching skort on the bottom.

Smells like teen spirit…and it really is Nirvana

 

Girls.  Teen girls. Preteen girls. Here they are in their natural state.

No one giving a mandatory peace sign while they stick their tongue out a la Miley Cyrus.

My girl is the one in the back – her two best buds are the cuties in the front (their mother is one of MY best buds, didn’t that work out well?)

This was taken at a local St. Patrick’s Day parade this year – I had taken 100 pictures of the three of them.  Each one identical (see note above re: peace sign).  This was 101.  Snuck in. A surprise. It’s my favorite.

As mothers we know what’s coming.  Relationships, break-ups, college, jobs, and if they choose…love-marriage-kids.

But for now, for today.  I like to see them like this. Giggling, silly, happy, wearing appropriate holiday attire and not trying to grow up too fast.

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